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    Default Fell in love with an escort now in serious debt

    I'm a dude that fell in love with an escort. I'm an emotionally damaged person(deal with depression and anxiety) and I've blown thousands on this "hobby" for years to escape from my personal issues. I saw my first escort few years ago. I started seeing a girl last year and over time I fell for her. I spent hours and months seeing her regularly.She helped with my emotional issues and so I kept seeing her. I spent all my savings on her like an idiot. She obviously did not feel the same way. I even thought she genuinely cared about me lol but it was obviously all about money and the moment I ran out of money, she stopped texting me and pretending to care lol. The whole time she pretended to really care about me and told me she doesn't care about money. She would say we're "friends" and that she genuinely cares.That was obviously not true lol. Anyways, I know she's a provider and she is not in the wrong here. She is here to sell a fantasy and I bought into it. I am the idiot here. I'm NOT a stalker nor a creep so I'm NOT going to cause any harm to this girl in any way.I will not EVER disclose her name or anything of that sort. I know that I don't deserve anything other than the time I pay for. I'm just here looking for suggestions on how I can deal with this hurt that I'm going through. Also, I know I'm an idiot for getting into this hobby at such a young age especially since I can't even afford it. I've gone into debt doing this and I'm left feeling hurt and heartbroken. I welcome any advice and criticism. I want you guys to tell me how stupid I am so I never do this again. This hobby has turned into an addiction and I don't wanna do this anymore especially not while I'm young. I'm a university student in a respectable program so I am doing something productive with my life and I have my shit together in other aspects of my life(work, school) so I'm not a complete loser lol. I started dealing with depression and anxiety while I was in school and ever since then, I've used this hobby as a coping mechanism. I am too afraid to date girls in real life even though I'm a good looking and funny guy( as I've been told my many people). Please help me. Please offer some advice. Tell me how stupid I am so my sex addicted brain can stop doing this and go chase after real women.

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    First off, congrats for accurately recognizing the problem. As i say all the time, this hobby is like WWE pro wrestling - do not ask if it is real, only ask if you were entertained. Understand that. Her job is to provide companionship and she clearly met your physical and emotional "entertainment" needs, but remember, it is an illusion. Like a movie. You did not storm Normandy on Omaha beach with Tom Hanks (i.e., saving private ryan) lol. Similarly, you did not just pick up a hot woman at a bar and bone her.

    This is an addiction, every bit as strong as alcoholism or gambling. You may have to drop it cold turkey.
    You should "coffee date". Meet women just for conversation. Make that the goal. If you're "hoping to score" you'll strike out more often than not, and that will add to your anxiety. Thus if you remove sex/full on relationship as your goal you remove a lot of pressure. Let the lady know you've been shy around women and enjoy meeting and chatting w interesting ladies. Who knows, maybe something will happen. But remove it as your end goal. Often anxiety happens as you become a prisoner and victim of your own standards or beliefs and fears. So change them, build up your interpersonal game without pressuring yourself too much. Good luck!

    P.s. if that can't work please see a health care professional. Bankrupting yourself is definitely a negative outcome.

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