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    Default I found out my wife has a past life shes never told me about

    I was on Cloud 9 when I met my then-girlfriend, whos now my wife of several months. Shes witty, charming, attractive, funny, loving and affectionate.

    We had a dream life. Until her ex-best friend came into the picture.

    This woman claims that my wife had unpaid debts which she insists that I settle, though stemming from long before wed met.

    My wifes unaware that her ex-friend approached me to settle her debts. I refused, and told the woman that I wasnt interested.

    Then this friend dropped a bombshell on me, asserting that my wife had worked as an exotic dancer at adult establishments which later progressed to her offering intimate companionship services as an escort.

    I didnt want to believe her but after conducting some extensive sleuthing I learned that its all true.

    Im very angry and troubled by these upsetting revelations.

    Please note that this is NOT a critical chastisement of sex trade workers. I sympathize with the plight of women who opt for work in occupations that come with inherent risks.

    Ive not yet raised this with my wife and am unsure how to do so.

    She was previously known by a different name, had lived in a different city, etc., none of which she shared with me.

    If she was seeking a fresh start at life, Id have appreciated if shed disclosed all this to me upfront when we started dating.

    Im seriously considering speaking to a lawyer and even contemplating divorce. Please advise.

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    Don't you have any good friend? Sharing your personal life in a public forum seems odd.
    Anyways, I understand your distress, but look at the bright side: She picked you! Who doesn't have a past, right?

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    I don't think you should consider divorce. When I was in college, I escorted to pay for my tuition. I met a guy I liked who I eventually married and I stopped escorting. If you think she's witting and charming and funny and loving and all of that, then why would you be upset now?

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    Talk to your wife and ask her why she didn't confide in you sooner? You may find out that her reasons could be very valid. Don't consider ending the marriage because of her past. Give the "present" a chance, and consider yourself being in a similar situation. You and she deserve at least that much.

    Good Luck

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    You expect the person you choose to spend your life with to be honest with you about everything. When the foundation of that relationship isnt sturdy, however, it can be impossible to build upon it. Not everyone feels completely comfortable engaging in self-disclosure, even to the people we hold most dear. Years of living in the closet appeared to make people naturally reticent to share openly with others, even their relationship partners. Apparently, people do keep some important secrets from their partners, though not everyone does so to the same extent. Secrets are common even in the most "open" of relationships. Explore their role in yours, and you may gain true insight into yourself and your partner.

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    Gentlemen, would appreciate your opinion on this. Im recently married and Im sponsoring my wife who is from overseas. In the visa application it asks her to get a police report from her home country. Problem is - she has had a charge for being a sex worker there. No criminal charges were laid because she was a first time offender. We dont know if this will appear on her police report. I told her I dont think its a big deal, and I dont think the immigration will either. Its not murder, or drug trafficking. I would appreciate your thoughts on this one fellas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duped and Deceived View Post
    I was on Cloud 9 when I met my then-girlfriend, whos now my wife of several months. Shes witty, charming, attractive, funny, loving and affectionate.

    We had a dream life. Until her ex-best friend came into the picture.

    This woman claims that my wife had unpaid debts which she insists that I settle, though stemming from long before wed met.

    My wifes unaware that her ex-friend approached me to settle her debts. I refused, and told the woman that I wasnt interested.

    Then this friend dropped a bombshell on me, asserting that my wife had worked as an exotic dancer at adult establishments which later progressed to her offering intimate companionship services as an escort.

    I didnt want to believe her but after conducting some extensive sleuthing I learned that its all true.

    Im very angry and troubled by these upsetting revelations.

    Please note that this is NOT a critical chastisement of sex trade workers. I sympathize with the plight of women who opt for work in occupations that come with inherent risks.

    Ive not yet raised this with my wife and am unsure how to do so.

    She was previously known by a different name, had lived in a different city, etc., none of which she shared with me.

    If she was seeking a fresh start at life, Id have appreciated if shed disclosed all this to me upfront when we started dating.

    Im seriously considering speaking to a lawyer and even contemplating divorce. Please advise.
    Man you are on this forum, Im sure it means you are not a stranger for escort yourself, you obviously had the past, but did you tell her about your adventures with other girls before you met, maybe even meanwhile? I doubt so, that means you are not better than her, stop judging and love her for what she is with you

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    This reminds me of a story, a husband's friends, who noticed his frustration with his marital status, advised him to go to an escort. "Go live, until you see what happens to your wife," they told him, and he adopted their advice. A few days later, he arrived at one of the institutes at night, and paid several hundred for entertainment with one of the young women on the spot. But nothing prepared the man for the following surprise: In his room, his wife, dressed in minimal attire, was waiting for him as a customer. The husband passed out with astonishment, whereas the woman quickly fled the scene. After recovering, the husband rushed back home and called a family law attorney to file a divorce claim against his wife with the courts. The husband claimed his wife cheated on him when she told him she was working in a restaurant, when in fact she was working as an escort. The woman refused to the divorce on the grounds that he intended to cheat on her with an escort.

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