First Timer Needs Honest Advice

[wmd33]

gentleman, hello! I guess you can say ive been "window shopping" for the last few months. I visit this forum every now and again and ive read all kinds of stuff (good, bad, and... well, questionable). Anyway, im looking to find my frst SP (see, im learning the lingo) but i have no idea where to start. Some of the issues im looking for guidance on would be like "independent vs. agency?" which should i try? etc

Here's the thing... theres all kinds of "cliches" surrounding people who hire SP's. The mind-set seems to be not so flattering with respect to those who hire SP's... either that youre desperate, pathetic, unattractive, have no luck with the ladies, etc. etc. but from what ive read on the forum, it doesnt seem be that way at all (at least for some... but this is the internet so what do i know?)

I just want to say that im young.. 21... im not ugly, im not a virgin, im not overweight. The idea of hiring SP's as a hobby seems like a thrill, really. The idea of NSA fun turns me on... if you think about it, all women are SP's. some you pay cash up front, for others you have to buy drinks, dinner, hallmark cards, and all that other shit. Ive had a couple serious girlfriends... and thats not where i want to be right now in my life. i'd like to get into SP's but have no idea who to start with.

ANY HELP, BOYS?

[Ben Derhover]

Go with an agency. I have had good luck with the agencies. Each agency has a phone person that answers the phone all day long, whereas some independents dont always answer the phone for several reasons. Which can be very frustrating. Plus, if you pick a well know agency, what you see is what you get. No bait & switch, no BS, and if you have a problem with the girl the phone person will help you sort out the problem. I have found that some independents also double book or book appointments very close together. With an agency you dont need to deal with the girl until you meet her which adds a little more mystery to the date when you actually meet her.

[Clark_Photo]

Actually, I've had a bit of a different experience when it comes to independents.

I'm in the same boat as you are, bro, not desperate, not a virgin (obviously by now), young-ish at 22, just looking at it as a hobby.

I will admit, going through an independent can sometimes be a bit more sketchy, but then I've only done this twice, and both times I've actually done rather well. But my experience won't necessarily be your experience.

Independents (I would think and so far have seen) are ~USUALLY~ less costly than an agency. If you're like me and on a tighter budget, perhaps that may factor into it a little. Either you're saving up longer to foot the bill of an agency, or you're being very careful with independents.

Ben is quite right in suggesting an agency. Going with a reputable one, you're assured that the woman you picked to have your great time with is the one you get. If something comes up and she's not available for a particular reason, either at time of booking you're told she's not available, or something is worked out so you either get re-booked for a better time, or something else. Never dealt with an agency, so not entirely sure what else other than a choice of another SP.

With independents, are are some real gems about. But they're tough to find sometimes, and they can sometimes double-book by accident. The one I saw most recently, she and I had a lovely few phone calls to re-determine my scheduled time as I was a bit late, and some other things probably happened on her end. Some independents are not so great for particular reasons (attitude, habits), and sometimes the person in the photograph is not the person you requested.

If you decide to start searching out an independent, you can find some in the erotic section of CraigsList (CL is typically how that is noted on here). Just make sure you're searching within the right city :P . You can also find some in the Toronto Sun in the back of their classifieds, NOW magazine (as well as their website), and through other various escort add sites such as red zone and others.

I hope that helps you out some, man. Just two things which are quite obvious I'd hope... treat the ladies with respect (it really goes a long way I feel) and keep the helmet on!

[wmd33]

thanks alot. i did some googling just now and tried looking up toronto escort agencies... wow, there sure are an awful lot. i'd assume some of you guys have had quite favourable experiences and thats why youre here. so tell me, which escort services are the best in the city? best in terms of quality, services, and cost $$$

[Ben Derhover]

This question has been answered before but I'll let it rip again.
Mirage is one of the top agencies but a little pricey. Erotixxx their sister company is cheaper and very good also. I have used Erotixxx twice, they are A+ in my books. Good agencies for Asian's , TOG and TAG. I have used TOG and was treated well. Then there is Dream Maker , excellent, have used them. I used Sassy Angels, A+. Have not used these agencies but they are good also; Roommates, 4play, secret-rendezvous , Exquisite, Vixens (outcalls only), Select, Toronto passions.

Originally Posted by wmd33

thanks alot. i did some googling just now and tried looking up toronto escort agencies... wow, there sure are an awful lot. i'd assume some of you guys have had quite favourable experiences and thats why youre here. so tell me, which escort services are the best in the city? best in terms of quality, services, and cost $$$

[curious80]

The problem with this is that they all seem to say they don't work with guys under 25, or under 30 sometimes. I don't know how to get around tha (I'm 21 as well). I'd far rather have a girl who's comfortable working with a young guy like me, otherwise it will be weird.

I want to find a milf SP who's cool with younger guys too, ha ha.